Friday, 14 June 2013

Keep Your Man By Being a Confident Girlfriend

To be a confident girlfriend you first need to be a confident woman.

Although appearing insecure and frightened may appeal to some men for most they run a mile from needy, insecure women.

When a woman is insecure she will constantly worry about losing her man and will become very possessive off him. She will constantly question him and want to know where he is and what he is doing all the time. A man will soon become tired of this behaviour and more often than not dump his girl.

Instead, it is best to be confident, smart and independent and he will be proud to be your partner and find you very sexy.

If you aren't a confident women then it is up to you to FAKE being confident. Once you practice being confident it will just become second nature and before you know it you will become confident.

If you feel that you are insecure and get very jealous then there are some questions that you need to ask yourself so you can become more confident:

  1. Why are you so jealous?

  2. Is there a reason to be jealous?

  3. Has your boyfriend been unfaithful and caused you to lose trust in him?

  4. Does your boyfriend flirt with other girls just to make you jealous?

  5. Have you been cheated on by a previous boyfriend?

  6. Or are you just an insecure person and always have been?

You need to ask yourself these questions and find out the reason for your jealousy and insecurity. Only when you find the reason can you fix it.

In some cases you may have been confident in the past but for some reason have become insecure within your relationship. This can happen if you and your boyfriend are on different levels when it comes to relationships. You may feel that you love him more than he loves you or you need him more than he needs you. If you have these feelings then it is natural that you will begin to feel insecure.

These insecurities can deepen the problem and when he knows you are insecure he may begin to love you or need you less. Sometimes it may be a big misconception that you believe you love him more than he loves you and if you talk to him about it you might find that it isn't the case.

If you can learn to be confident again then you will once again be the confident person he first fell in love with and this can bring back the spark and the love in the relationship.

Be confident and keep your man!